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P.S. I Love You

How to Identify Safe People

When your track record isn’t good

Feb 14, 2021

How to Identify Safe People

Feb 14, 2021

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The Virago

How Coercive Controllers Make You Believe You are Worthless

The hard to understand early stages of domestic abuse

Feb 20, 2023

How Coercive Controllers Make You Believe You are Worthless

Feb 20, 2023

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Bariatric Surgery Blog

I’m Not Fat Anymore, Thanks to Bariatric Surgery

My life is so much better, and I don’t care what the fat-acceptance warriors think.

Jan 9, 2023

I’m Not Fat Anymore, Thanks to Bariatric Surgery

Jan 9, 2023

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Bariatric Surgery Blog

Swapping Large Meals for a Big Life

Reflections on my first month following weight loss surgery

Apr 15, 2022

Swapping Large Meals for a Big Life

Apr 15, 2022

Saying Farewell to Fearless She Wrote

Goodbye to the publication that gave me back my voice.

Feb 26, 2022

Saying Farewell to Fearless She Wrote

Feb 26, 2022

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Bariatric Surgery Blog

Why I’m Having 85% of My Stomach Removed

I’m convinced life is better without excess weight.

Feb 7, 2022

Why I’m Having 85% of My Stomach Removed

Feb 7, 2022

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Bariatric Surgery Blog

Surgery Delayed, But Not My Journey to a Better Life

Extra time to prepare myself for a whole new way of eating.

Feb 7, 2022

Surgery Delayed, But Not My Journey to a Better Life

Feb 7, 2022

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Bariatric Surgery Blog

I’m Starting 2022 With Weight Loss Surgery

The journey to the decision.

Dec 29, 2021

I’m Starting 2022 With Weight Loss Surgery

Dec 29, 2021

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Equality Includes You

The New South Wales Parliament Will Move to Criminalize Coercive Control

It’s time for this lawyer to do her part.

Dec 26, 2021

The New South Wales Parliament Will Move to Criminalize Coercive Control

Dec 26, 2021

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Bariatric Surgery Blog

I’m (Still) Sick of Being Fat

I’ve had enough, it’s time for weight-loss surgery.

Nov 7, 2021

I’m (Still) Sick of Being Fat

Nov 7, 2021

Matilda Fairholm

Matilda Fairholm

Writing to rescue others from the devastation of domestic abuse, and learning to live better. https://matildafairholm.medium.com/membership

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