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Survivor of long term Domestic Violence and Coercive Control, adult convert to Christ, writes about the life lessons of rebuilding from scratch in my forties.

A case for context.

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It’s a difficult day for many people, for many reasons.

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Now it happens even when I barely write, here’s how.

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The relentless agony of an estrangement neither of us want.

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A year ago Medium changed the topic “Women” to “Feminism”. They are not the same thing.

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Perimenopause, Ovarian Cancer or something else?

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Many believe that the criminalization of coercive control is an overreach into private relationships — this is why they are wrong.

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I can’t believe it either.

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I’m about a third of the way, here’s what I’ve learnt so far.

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