Was I Complicit in the Abuse That I Suffered?

Examining the uncomfortable questions.

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One of the many challenges of writing about your own experiences of domestic abuse is the flack that you cop in the comments. Of course there is always the option of ignoring them. The problem with that that for some of us, me included, the primary purpose in writing about our experiences is not to make money, but to…