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Survivor of long term Domestic Violence and Coercive Control, adult convert to Christ, writes about the life lessons of rebuilding from scratch in my forties.

Many believe that the criminalization of coercive control is an overreach into private relationships — this is why they are wrong.

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Perimenopause, Ovarian Cancer or something else?

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I’m about a third of the way, here’s what I’ve learnt so far.

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The relentless agony of an estrangement neither of us want.

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A year ago Medium changed the topic “Women” to “Feminism”. They are not the same thing.

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I can’t believe it either.

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An examination of the bizarre #CallThemOut campaign championed by the ‘Brotherhood of Fathers’.

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The hard to face consequences, of our mind-numbing habits.

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